alright lads, i've been encouraged to post this here despite personally thinking it's a bad idea. i'm an NRIgger born and raised in the west. over the past few months i've been on and off hooking up with an indian girl who only came to the US recently. a few days ago we were talking and we somehow got to the topic of dating and marriage and she said that she could never see herself marrying an indian man from her state/caste like her family wants her to. i asked why and she basically started telling me that it's not just her state, but indian men in general she can't stand dating. we talked about indian girls too but i don't care about women and i'm interested in hearing what you, as mostly indian men still living in india, think about criticisms against indian men. i should add that she's not the first girl to tell me these things about indian men, but she is the first indian girl to talk to me in detail on why she doesn't like indian men. the critiques i've heard from women on why they don't like indian men are >very emotionally fragile >always want to hook up but judge girls for not being virgins >also literally, always want to hook up all the time. seemingly no control over sexual urges. >will judge girls for smoking, drinking, doing drugs despite doing all of those things to try and impress the very same girl >materialistic, will buy specific brands and expensive things for the sake of spending money >get angry, hostile if you reject them >petty and prone to gossip >never use deodorant (pretty much every says this about indians though) >unable to flirt >unable to text/chat/call. i've heard it described as indian guys will always pester girls if they don't respond to a text/chat within like 5 mins. >no interest in maintaining looks/fitness/general health >don't care for loyalty and building relationships, seem to use parents arranging a marriage for them as a fallback if things ever go wrong >super into their family's caste/historical status and the type of employment their family members have. will judge a girl if her mom or cousin or pet isn't of a certain caste or has a "bad" job. essentially, indian men are not seen as masculine. so what do you think? are these girls being fair or have they had the misfortune of dating a string of shitty indians? and again, these points are describing both indian men in the west and indian men in india. the stereotypes and characteristics of the two are surprisingly not really different at all.
>>860 I don't see any of this being exclusive to indian men. Indian women also do most of these. Also for some reason the shittiest of shitty Indians seem to end up abroad, every foreigner complains about shit Indians do that I rarely see people doing. They all describe typical Indian uncle characteristics. Either that or we are all at the mercy of Schrodinger, and the same people behave differently in India and in phoren because of their preconceived notions about phoren life (the 'angry, hostile' thing is likely because of the belief that white women are sluts and will fuck if you just ask.)
>>866 >Indian women also do most of these. yeah there was a good deal of overlap when we discussed indian women, i might as well list those things >huge ego, extremely narcissistic >use their men as wallets and their men's careers as status symbols >pathological liars to an extreme >use their kids as status symbols. >only pay attention/care for the kids so that the kids can make mom look good. have no interest in their kids' mental or physical development. >always hate whatever country they live in despite having the choice to move anywhere else then for indian girls raised in india >really, really care about caste and the type of family the guy comes from >huge attitude >literally incapable of having fun for the born/raised NRI girls >always comparing themselves to white girls >think they're better than all other indians >no desire to work or have a family >love to party to an excess >inability to cook (lol) for the girls i found it interesting how both the girl i was talking to and i were able to notice specific character distinctions between NRI girls and regular indian girls, but when it came to indian guys we kind of concluded they are the same everywhere. >They all describe typical Indian uncle characteristics. i don't know, the older uncles here aren't that bad, they're a little weird, but they aren't creepy or anything. i've never come across girls complaining about older indian men creeping on them, it's pretty much millennials and zoomers that are always brought up as unable to talk to girls or creepy or whatever.
>>860 tldr; lack of: experience financial security to regularly engage in the game feminine attitude bad health
>>866 > Also for some reason the shittiest of shitty Indians seem to end up abroad, every foreigner complains about shit Indians do that I rarely see people doing This is somewhat true. So there are many Resturanters, undereducated Indians who went abroad after emergency, tamil insurgency, Punjab riots etc. Most of them left because their village/city peopüle hated them for being asswipes. They come to their host country and do the same shit here while running a resturant or doing menial jobs. Since locals interact with them, they usually hurt the image of Indians the most. Additionally they also run Mafia's. Like Kenya, Canada,Italy etc. The reverse is also true, the worst of Cumskins settle in India.
>>860 How is your girl anon ? I find Indian women (NRI or Indian) to be insufferable. I cannot get along with them at all. Indian ones are usually narcissts. NRI's have low self esteen due to Foreign born confused desi syndrome and cope with really destructive behaviour.