I'll tell you one truth:
This site has nothing to offer anyone. There is no quality content here that you can not get faster elsewhere. Lurkar here is an addiction that reduces your productivity, ability to concentrate and free time. You are getting bitter, more closed-minded, arrogant and old. Get out now and block this site. There is nothing here but a barbecue in the slow, lonely bathroom.
People don't have discussions around here. Users don't use arguments, they just merge with green text and meme images. No one is interested in the truth; they only care about feeling superior for a moment. the most active posters are jerks who jump from one internet fight to another, with ten tabs open all the time and ensuring they have the last word on them all. A quality post is one in ten thousand, it's like looking for diamonds in the dump.
This place doesn't make you happy. You are not having fun. You are not living stories to tell, learning or growing. Instead you blow your nose every 20 minutes and occasionally get coerced to jerk off because someone posted something that made you stiff. You are addicted to immediate information and social interactions without pressure. This place is slowly poisoning you with misanthropy, narcissism, insecurity and a corrupted view of the world.
I'm not telling you to be yourself. I'm not telling you to go to the world. I'm not even telling you to make friends. Just get out of chan. Do anything else.